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Stitchboard Admin message #46
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October 29, 2015 at 2:18:54 AM

Neave,

Not surprising, but how awful!

They could have shown at least some concern...I would think they could have given you a supportive call when you were feeling up to it as you were recovering. What horrible siblings.

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neave message #47
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October 29, 2015 at 1:53:44 PM (in response to Stitchboard Admin message #1)

shay was the only one of all my siblings who cared and still does

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Stitchboard Admin message #48
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October 30, 2015 at 12:57:59 AM (in response to neave message #2)

Neave,

Glad you have Shay in your life.

As for the rest of them, it's their loss, not yours.

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neave message #49
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October 30, 2015 at 10:32:19 AM (in response to Stitchboard Admin message #3)

as far as i'm concerned the rest of our siblings and their spouses and kids can burn in hell

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Stitchboard Admin message #50
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October 31, 2015 at 2:01:07 AM (in response to neave message #4)

Neave,

Absolutely, and I feel the same way about so-called "family" on this end.

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neave message #51
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October 31, 2015 at 12:47:18 PM (in response to Stitchboard Admin message #5)

now you can see why i'd prefer not to keep the enemies closer because i'd be likely to shoot them and i'm not doing jail time for no one

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Stitchboard Admin message #52
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October 31, 2015 at 11:54:39 PM (in response to neave message #6)

Neave,

Not worth the jail sentence. Not worth hurting yourself for the sake of people who would be happy to see you harming yourself on their behalf.

That's the way I feel, too. The only kind of revenge that's worth it is the kind that's legal. Through courts or whatever, if it's possible. If not, they're still not worth a jail sentence.

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neave message #53
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November 2, 2015 at 10:06:14 AM (in response to Stitchboard Admin message #7)

no one's worth a jail sentence and luckily for me nicky has life time restraining orders on my mom,dad and my older siblings to stop them ever getting near me or phoning or texting or emailing me

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Stitchboard Admin message #54
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November 3, 2015 at 1:33:00 AM (in response to neave message #8)

Neave,

I'm so glad they can't get to you!

I can completely understand why this would be an issue. Some families are absolutely horrid. I'm happy Nicky takes the issue seriously. So many people would tell you to work things out with them, but there are some relationships that will never work out. It's so healthy of you to cut them out of your life.

Some people would disagree with that, but those are people who have no idea what a bad relationship with family is like. Family hurting you is worse than any con artist cheating you, because it's always personal with family.

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neave message #55
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November 3, 2015 at 5:50:07 AM (in response to Stitchboard Admin message #9)

what makes it even worse is the second time i was left fighting for my life 28th dec 2012 until march 2013 i was stabbed and left in a pool of blood by the same guy my dad had once tried to set me up with after dad had tried to break me and nicky up

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Stitchboard Admin message #56
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November 4, 2015 at 3:47:35 AM (in response to neave message #10)

Neave,

Oh, grrrrrrrrrrrrrr...he tried to break you guys up?!

What a lousy father!

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neave message #57
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November 4, 2015 at 2:05:40 PM (in response to Stitchboard Admin message #11)

yep 1989 dad tried to split me and nicky up and set me up with a friend of his son and that son then stabbed me on 28th dec 2012 and left me for dead in a pool of blood in a lane behind a care home for the elderly where i had gone to visit my elderly godafther and i was left fighting for my life for 3 and a half months that son of my dad's friend then got a friend of his to go after me again in november 2013 and on 21st november 2013 i was once again stabbed in public on a busy street in dublin city centre right in front of nicky my lungs were punctured my bowel was punctured and so was my bladder i now have a permanent bag on my stomach because i now only have 10% of my bowel left i am also permanently catheterized and i'm also oxygen dependent i was left fighting for my life for 9 weeks after that attack and then last year 20th september my lungs collpased due to a massive infection in them and blood clot in them cal came home from school and found me face down turning blue on the top of the stairs he had me blue lighted into hospital where they rushed me down to surgery and removed half of each lung i was left fighting for my life for 5 weeks and they had to deliver my middle one shane on 7th nov last year by ememrgency c-sec while i was still in a medically induced coma

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Stitchboard Admin message #58
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November 5, 2015 at 12:44:18 AM (in response to neave message #12)

Neave,

Oh, hon, I had no idea!

Did the guy ultimately go to jail, I hope? How about his idiot friend? They deserve far worse than jail, but at least that would be the appropriate place for both, considering far worse isn't, um, legal.

I can't believe he was left free after the first time he attacked you.

It's amazing you're alive after all of that...glad we didn't lose you!

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neave message #59
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November 5, 2015 at 1:46:48 PM (in response to Stitchboard Admin message #13)

no the son of my dad's friend still hasn't gone on trial fo it and neither has his mate

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Stitchboard Admin message #60
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November 5, 2015 at 11:57:38 PM (in response to neave message #14)

Neave,

GRRRRRRRRR!

That really pisses me off. Why in the name of all that's good did he and his buddy not get put on trial?! They deserve far worse than that, but at least that much!

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